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Marguerite Ellery

In loving memory

Marguerite Ellery

1931 – 2019

Gardener, letter-writer, keeper of the family's stories.

Born
Whitby, North Yorkshire
At rest
St. Hilda's churchyard, Whitby

A life

The story, in order

  1. 1931

    Born in Whitby

    Eldest of four, born above the family bakery.

  2. 1952

    Qualified as a teacher

    Trained at the college in Scarborough.

  3. Spring 1956

    Married Edward

    At St. Hilda's, in the rain, by all accounts happily.

  4. 1956–1996

    Forty years of the infants' class

    Three generations learned their letters with her.

  5. 1960s onward

    The August gatherings

    The whole family, every summer, at Sandsend.

  6. 2019

    At rest

    In the churchyard she taught beside for forty years.

Her life, in full

A written life

Marguerite was born above her father's bakery in Whitby in the spring of 1931, the eldest of four. She trained as a schoolteacher, married Edward in 1956, and for forty years taught the infants' class at St. Hilda's — where, it's said, three generations of the same families learned their letters at her knee.

She kept a garden that spilled over its walls with sweet peas, and a habit of writing letters that outlived the people who received them. When the family scattered — to London, to Toronto, to Lagos — it was her weekly letters that held them together.

She is remembered for her patience, her ginger cake, and an unshakeable belief that no story was ever truly lost as long as someone still told it.

Photographs

As we remember

Sunrise over the harbour, the view from her window.
Sunrise over the harbour, the view from her window.
The garden at Elm Cottage, summer 1974.
The garden at Elm Cottage, summer 1974.
Sandsend beach, where the family gathered each August.
Sandsend beach, where the family gathered each August.

In her own voice

Recordings

Marguerite reading aloud, recorded 2016.

From those who remember

Tributes

She taught us to read. We have not forgotten.

The class of 1971

I never met my great-grandmother, but I have her ginger cake recipe and now, her voice. Thank you for keeping her.

Femi Ellery-Okonkwo

Grandma's letters are still in my drawer. I read them when the world feels far away.

Ada, Toronto

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